Showing posts with label Food For Thought. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Food For Thought. Show all posts
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Well 2021 is finally coming to a close. This year has been good.
There were a few obstacles that came my way, but I overcame them.
Important Lessons I've learned from 2021:
• Self Care Is Important
It's true! Self care is very important. Taking some time out everyday for yourself isn't selfish, it's necessary. Reading a book, meditating, watching your favorite TV show or movie, getting a manicure, or even shopping are some great examples. Take time out for yourself each day to nourish your mind, body, and soul.
• Haters Never Prosper
Let's get straight to the point, haters are toxic. Usually when a hater tries to tear you down, it's a reflection of their own self. These types of people are unhappy with themselves and want to inflict their pain onto other people. Nothing good comes from being a hater, it's just a toxic never ending cycle leading down the path of destruction. I notice little things people try to say and do to get under my skin. I try my best not to respond to the hate, it's a waste of time and energy. The best thing you can do is pray for these types of people, they need God in their lives.
• Everyone Doesn't Have Good Intentions
Everyone doesn't have your best interest at heart, some people pretend well. One of the hardest lessons I had to learn this year. Some people will smile in your face, and then talk bad about you behind your back.
Getting backstabbed is never a good feeling. I let God deal with situations like this. After all, he sees everything.
• Believe In Yourself
You have to believe in yourself no matter what, no matter how hard life gets. If you don't believe in yourself, then who will? It all begins with self love. This year I've had a lot of naysayers, but that didn't stop me. It never will! This is who I am. This is my calling and I love what I do.
Hi everyone! I'm back. I will be speaking on a very serious yet intense subject, The Law Of Karma.
What Is Karma?: Well, karma is the universal law of cause and effect. Whatever energy you put out into the universe, you will eventually get back.
For Example: If a person is a kind, caring, and honest individual who has love and respect for people from all walks of life, they will receive good karma. If a person is a vicious, demonic, and deceitful individual with evil intentions and no respect for other people, then they will receive bad karma. Simple as that! The law of karma is no laughing matter, and it is not something that should be taken lightly.
You can not go around your whole life treating people any kind of way and expect good things to happen to you, that's not how life works. Sadly, some people actually believe they can escape their bad karma, but it cannot be escaped. Yes, you can do good deeds to try and save yourself, but if your intentions are not genuine then there's no point. You can pray, all you want and ask God to forgive you for your sins, but what is the point if you're going to keep doing the same horrible things over and over again? Why should God have mercy on your soul, when you have showed him countless times that you do not care? Yes, God is a forgiving and merciful God, but it is not right to continuously take advantage of his loving, kind heart. By doing this, you are showing God that you do not care about others or even yourself! This is where the law of karma comes into play. When you continuously let the enemy lead you down the wrong path, you're only setting yourself up for failure in the end.
Everything we do in life has it's consequences. That's why you have to be very careful how you treat others because, what goes around will always come back around in the end. If you are going to do good deeds, make sure they are coming from the heart. For example, Try to help others who are in need by donating. You can gather up food and donate it to a local food bank or shelter. Donate clothes, furniture, and other items you don't need to a goodwill. If you do good, then good will always come back to you. Have compassion and understanding for others. Try your best not to judge other people, because you never know what someone is really going through. Speak positive words and try to think positive thoughts. Being around negative people with bad vibes will attract bad karma and negativity to you. Try to hang around positive, uplifting people. If you only have one positive person in your life, then go and spend time with them. If you can't find any, then hangout with yourself.
Well, that wraps up my post on The Law Of Karma. Have any thoughts? Please share them in the comments below.
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This crazy year is finally coming to an end. Let's just say 2020 has been very enlightening, to say the least. I have definitely learned a lot this year.
Here are 3 lessons I've learned from 2020:
1. Everything In Life Happens For A Reason
Everything happens for a reason. Some experiences we go through in life are meant to teach us and help us grow. God has a reason for everything! Sometimes, we don't understand why certain situations occur, but in the end it all makes sense.
2. A persons true colors will always show within time
This year showed me who people truly are. What I've learned is that during the worst times of your life, you get to see who really cares about you. Sadly, I had to cut a lot people off due to their evil, narcissistic ways. Like Maya Angelou says, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." now that I know better, I can do better.
3. Prayer is The Best Medicine
I cannot tell you how many times I wanted to give up. Way too many to count. No matter what I went through, I never gave up. Whenever you feel like throwing in the towel, pray. I cannot stress this enough! Prayer is always the answer to everything. If something is not meant to be, then let it go. God will replace it with something better.
In today's world, people are always trying to outdo each other. Why does everything in life have to be a competition? What is the REAL problem?
I've noticed the whole "competition trend" in real life and on social media. Honestly, It's really pathetic how people are behaving. Women are competing with each other over the craziest things. Families are being torn apart, and friendships are being ruined everyday due to silly, competitive games. Whatever happened to sticking together and being there for one another? Whatever happened to girl power? With everything that's going on in the world right now, this is the last thing we should be thinking about. This really needs to stop.
Sadly, I have experienced this too. Ever since I was a child, girls would always try to compete with me, but I never understood why. I stayed to myself. I never thought I was better than anyone else. I was, and still is very humble. Even to this day, I still have people competing with me. My question is why? What is the point of trying to compete with others, when you can take some of that time to better yourself?
Me personally, I have never felt the need to compete. Why? Because I'm confident. I know I'm good at what I do. When you have confidence and feel secure within yourself, you will not feel the need to battle with others. You'll be so busy working on yourself, you won't even have time to worry about what someone else is doing. At the end of the day, the only person you should be competing with, is the person in the mirror.
During this time, what we should be focusing on is getting along with one another. We should start being there for each other more often. We gotta do better than this.
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What is Body Shaming? Body shaming is the act of criticizing a person's shape or size. Discriminating against someone over their body type is wrong.
Why is body shaming wrong? Judging someone for their physical appearance is considered bullying. You never really know what someone is going through. Some words and phrases can cause extreme emotional pain. Body shaming and fat shaming can cause stress and affect a person's well being. This can have a negative impact on someone's self esteem. Just because someone's body looks a certain way, doesn't give them the right to ridicule someone else's. There is a difference between constructive criticism and being flat out rude.
Usually when a person body shames someone, It's because they have low self esteem. They are not happy with themselves and criticize others to make themselves feel better. When you judge someone by their appearance, it doesn't define them, it defines you! Projecting your insecurities onto someone else is never okay. It's time to take a step back. Take a long, hard look at yourself and work on your inner issues to heal those problems from within.
The more you point out someone else's flaws, the more you highlight your own.
Before you judge someone, look in the mirror and start with yourself.
It's ridiculous how people will try to get even with someone, especially over something that's so trivial. What people fail to realize is, revenge doesn't work. Some People will spend their whole life trying to get even with others. When you try to hurt someone out of spite, you only end up hurting yourself in the end. It's time to get over it and let it go.
See the problem with revenge is, it's a never ending cycle. Once someone starts, they will not want to stop. Nothing is resolved through revenge. It's counterproductive and pointless. Inflicting harm or pain on someone will not make you feel any better. People often forget that karma is very real.. What goes around will always come back around in the end. Seeking vengeance is a complete waste of time and energy. Over the years, I've learned to let God deal with my problems. The best revenge is no revenge at all.
"The Greatest Prison People Live In, Is The Fear Of What Other People Think"
Do you constantly find yourself worrying about what others think about you? Are you afraid people are going to judge you for your decisions? Are you always trying to fit in? If so, you are not alone. Many of us do this. It can be very difficult to stop worrying about what others think, especially when it's your family and friends. Today, I will give you three tips on how to stop worrying so much and start living again.
Ask Yourself Why
First, ask yourself this question. Why do you care so much about what other people think? Are you scared you are going to disappoint them? If this is the reason, STOP. Think about what will happen if you disappoint yourself. You cannot live your life for other people, only for YOU! You are the one who will have to deal with the consequences and repercussions. Trust your inner voice and always listen to your intuition before making decisions.
When in Doubt, Pray It Out!
When in doubt, pray. Whether you are a Christian or not. Every time you start to worry, pray. When you are afraid, pray. Even if it's for five minutes. Ask God to help you make the right decisions, and ask him to give you strength. He's always listening.
Practice Self Love and Care
Love yourself first. When you lack self confidence, you will always try to please other people. Once you learn self love, you will stop worrying about others. I know it is easier said than done, but it's possible. Take time out for yourself each day. Nourish your mind, body, and soul.
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